Friday, June 1, 2007
Blogging is a way I get to write and not have to see the person’s face of disbelief or see them panic when I make a grammatical error. This past quarter I have grown to enjoy writing and developing better skills of writing. The type of blogs we write are about our lives, which I find easy to write about because it is first hand, and I can explain it much easier than if I heard the story from someone else. I have gained more confidence in my writing this quarter because of the comments that are left on my blogs, even if it is a comment saying they can relate to my post. Although all the commenter is saying is that they can easily relate to your blog, it means that they took the time out of their day to read your post that you worked very hard on.
Defective Yeti was a big influence in our class because it had many advantages but also had its disadvantages too. One lesson I learned from Defective Yeti was that, even though you are commenting you must take your time to make good grammatical structured sentences. When reading comments people get the first impression of you by your comment and how it is written. Like on Defective Yeti there were numerous errors made by some of our classmates and the readers pointed it out to us and even went as far as saying we were not well-educated. This example also has its disadvantages because when only reading a comment people do not get the sense of who you are until they go read more of your work.
An advantage of blogging is that news travels very fast because of the speed of the internet and it helps people promote their writing to other people. Blogging is a way to express your feelings, when people are shy and do not want to talk to others about their problems they find peace through writing. It is also a way to catch up on the gossip going on in the life of the blog’s author. Our class blogs are a good example of the advantages of blogging because it has made our writing better and has built our confidence to share our writing with others, like Melinda’s blog on the stress in her life and Janelle’s blog about her traveling experiences.
Blogs can also help relieve stress by writing about your happenings in your life because when you are writing about something you are releasing it for someone else to read; thus, making it seem like someone is listening to your story. Many people write blogs as a way to deal with problems in their life so they can express their feelings.
News being spread quickly is also a disadvantage because it could possibly develop into a problem. When posting on the internet, people can’t get their point across because sometimes the reader can’t read the expressions on the author’s face. Sometimes when people do not get taken seriously because of what they wrote they may tend to become guarded and possibly lose the desire to write.
The Virginia Tech shooting is another example of good and bad things about blogs. The good side to blogs in this event was that it helped police try to find the shooter. It is quick and resourceful technique law enforcement uses to help with cases. Although sometimes because of blogs people are wrongly accused for things they did not do. There was a male student who attended Virginia Tech that fit the description of shooter and because of his blog authorities began to believe it was this man. In this case blogs are a good thing because it helps possible find the harmful person yet it also can cause major confusion when someone is wrongly accused.
When searching around on blogs I find that it is interesting to come across people who use writing to express their feelings because it makes me sit and wonder what I would do in their shoes or helps me better understand what it would to be them. Many people use blogs to tell stories, to give tips from when they went through situations or even use blogs as a learning experience for a class.
In this past quarter I have found that I enjoy blogs because it has helped me grow as a writer. Not only does it help me boost my confidence but it helped me with my grammatical errors. Blogs are growing rapidly and is becoming a favorite trend among different ages. Blogs help promote things like candidates for the next election and even give you tips on how to release stress. Overall I believe blogging is good, but people should be careful. When writing on the internet people don’t get to see you on first imprecation; therefore, one’s writing should be excellent. Like the old wise saying, never judge a book by its cover.
Thursday, May 31, 2007
- Stress of school: Stress at school is still going strong because of finals coming up, but after finals I have about a week break until I start one of my summer classes (so I can get it out of the road).
- Finding enough time: Finding time with friends it rough but with school coming to an end it is much easier to see everyone. My boyfriend and I have worked out a schedule that we both can work around to see each other. My friends and me also plan on having a "girls night" once a week to get away from everything and just have fun.
- Losing a friend: This is the one that has changed the most, my friend has been in contact with me through text messaging and keeping me updated with everything. Recently she left for a treatment center and is very home sick. Everything seems to be improving and I hope this could be a new beginning, where we left off. I can honestly say that she is the one friend that always was there for me when I needed her and it has been really hard lately without her. When I first got her text I was trilled beyond belief.
- Sleep: Sleep, still not getting enough to make my body happy. With school ending it should cut back all my hours at school and studying, which will help out a lot.
- Living in a small town: Recently I have broke the small town roll that I play, and let peer pressure get to me when I was upset about my major. I hate lying to my parents because I know they will find out or they probably already know and are just waiting for me to confess, but I'm not.
- School: I got the letter from my major saying, "I'm sorry to inform you but after reviewing your application we can not accept you," I was a little crazy, which let into the whole breaking the small town roll. Next Thursday I have a meeting with a guy in Columbus to help me plan out my next few years to get my where I want me instead of having someone call me stupid. I am smarter to go somewhere else when I don't get the answer I wanted.
There has been my life updated from the past couple weeks, not much has changed but what has changed has been dramatic. With finals coming up I am gonna try to relax and push through it all because when June 6th hits I am school free...for about a week!!!
Thursday, May 24, 2007
I chose stress to writing stress in my blog because it is something that has came up a lot lately in my life. Starting college, going to a job and managing other things is something that people deal with day to day. Writing is an opportunity for me to get my emotions out and be able to possibly release some of that stress. Blogging has helped my writing by making me more confident in my writing and it is also nice to get feed back from other bloggers about my writing.
What kind of people read you blog?
Anyone who has stress in their life can read/relate to my blog. Stress is a feeling that happens to everyone. My classmates are the main readers to my blog and they all can relate to stress from school.
How do you feel about blogging?
I find blogging an interesting way to interact with other people. Blogging is a way you can write and get positive or negative feed back to help you improve your writing.
How do you want people to view your blog?
I hope people take my writing serious because what I write about it about my life and how I feel about the topic I write about. All the topics I write about are very close to my heart and I have had strong feelings for. I hope people enjoy my writing and give me feedback to make my writing better.
Thursday, May 17, 2007
Not only did the advisor tell me I was not good enough but she also gave me no indication of what classes I need to take this upcoming fall quarter. I am in a panic trying to get a hold of another advisor in Columbus to help me out before I have to schedule Monday afternoon.
Many thoughts have been running through my mind, like if I really want to do this major or even if I want to finish my schooling at Ohio State. I have thought about transferring to Shawnee State, two and a half hours away from my home town, but then again I don’t think I can be that far away from my family. I sit here and debate if I want to do health science or if I just want to be like everyone else in my family and get a business degree to work in the family business. I don’t want to be like everyone else; therefore I am going to push through this, study my ass off, and hope for the best when I get that envelope that has the Ohio State symbol on it.
Thursday, May 10, 2007
1.)STUDY!!! STUDY!!! STUDY!!! Most high school students don’t have to put in extra effort studying for a test. However, when you reach college you must study because if you don’t your grades will plunge. For an example I did this in my Biology 101 class I didn’t study and I got a C in that course, which dropped my GPA.
2.)Don’t put things off until the last minute. When you get an assignment do it in the next couple days and don’t push it off until the last minute. Things come up and don’t give you the opportunity to work on the assignment full-hearted. I did this with my oral presentation and I am regretting not putting that extra effort into it because I know I could have done better.
3.)Make sure you read your books. To pass a class with a good grade you must read and not just take notes. Yet, the teacher does talk a little on big subjects you must read to fully understand the concept. I really wish I would have known this coming into college because I thought I didn’t need to read the books and I got grades that I didn’t want.
4.)Don’t cram the night before a test. It is a lot easier to studying multiple times before a test rather than cramming 12 hours before the test. I know that my brain can’t handle that much information in that time span.
5.)Have fun! Don’t get too caught up into studying. Hang out with your friends. This past quarter I have loaded myself down with work and school; I have not had enough time to spend with my friends. College is the time to party (just be careful; don’t drink and drive) so catch up on your reading the beginning of the week, get all your homework and studying out off the way, and get out of the house.
Wednesday, May 9, 2007
There is a couple of methods I agree with and plan on using to lower my stress levels. The first technique listed is a subject that I can relate to; I often take breaks during my homework and, come back to work on it later. A break gives me an opportunity to clear my mind and possibly think of better ideas to expand my paper. However, I do find it hard sometimes to take a break when I am rushing to get my work done because I have other things I have to do like go to work or study for another class. I do agree very much with this technique, when and if it is possible it works very well. In addition technique I find that it the most one I can relate to states that dieting, getting enough sleep, drinking plenty of water and exercising will help reduce your high stress levels. I have experienced this technique and it works well too. When I get stressed out, I go and get on the elliptical to clear my mind, or (when I played softball) I would go out in the garage and hit off my softball tee. One thing I find interesting in this tip is that it tells you to stretch because this too releases stress. I plan on trying to add stretching to my daily list of things to do so I can try and release some stress.
When reading technique three, I really was shocked to find out that spicy foods actually get a person to think clearer. In tests, it is to be found that spicy foods cause your brain to release hormones which, helps to relieve stress. If I would have known this earlier in my college career, I would have ate chili everyday about three times. However, in the end of the description Destin Lewis tells one to steer clear of a lot of spicy foods because it causes ulcers, which I bet are even more pain than the stress.
I found one technique that I thought was extreme and probably would not do to release stress. Breathing in and out through one nostril, I view as a little crazy. It tells one to plug one nostril and breathe in through the other nostril and out with your mouth. Now I have heard of breathing in through the nose and out with the mouth, but to plug one nostril. At the end of the tip, it tells one to avoid doing this tip if the person has a cold; I find that part funny because when I have a cold I can’t breathe out my nose anyways.
This last and final technique I found strange; I never new that a machine could help one with stress. The author states “These devices train you to control a biological process such as heart rhythm in order to become habitually more relaxed” ( Easy Ways).I, myself, would not hook my body up to a machine to release stress; I think I would try to release it by the other techniques before relying on a machine to make me better.
Ultimately, Destin Lewis, the author of the blog, uses an easy format for the reader. The blog is listed in bullets, so it is easier for the reader to understand the techniques. The author of the blog explains the techniques well, so people can use them if they wanted. I wish that the author would have put more ways to reduce stress, and maybe even explained how he reduces stress.
I find it gives good techniques on how to deal with stress because it is easy to read, I clearly understood the blog. However, when one has a lot of stress I think these might now work. When one is dealing with stress, he/she have to minimize it and hope he/she doesn’t get overwhelmed. I believe that I am going to take the exercise tip and place that into my life again. I am hoping that these tips I learned will help me reduce my stress levels and possibly become a calmer person.
Thursday, May 3, 2007
You can do something one night and your parents find out the next morning that you have got into trouble; news in this little town spreads like “wild fire”. My parents and family have made good influences on me to make good decisions. I’m an eighteen year old college student who does not drink. After, losing two family members in car accidents related to alcohol; I find it rather tough to put myself in that situation. Everyone in the community knows this too, and holds me to not drinking and relies on me to be the so called “DD”. I would rather drive them around than seeing my very close friends get into a car accident and possibly losing their life.
There are also many positives about living in a small town. There is not that extra stress of not knowing someone or not being able to trust people when you need help. Living in Hanover/ Marne there is always that nice neighbor or even family that is there to help with any needs. I have grown up living in about a five mile radius of all my family; thus, the explanation of seeing them almost everyday. I love having my close family because they are always there when you need them. Living in a small town is also nice because you never have to introduce yourself to someone; they already know you from your parents. A lot of people my parents graduated with I recently graduated with their kids. Although, there is the typical small town drama, from everyone knowing everyone’s business; hence, not getting away with nothing.
Thursday, April 26, 2007
Thursday, April 19, 2007
My best friend since pre-school has been going through anorexia for over a year. This affect her life, her families, and everyone involved with it. The big thing for me with this situation is the stress knowing that I may loss my best friend. Anorexia caused my friend to push away all of her friends and family, which caused her disorder to go full effect because she felt as if she was alone. This made her not answer her phone, never return phone calls, and never want to hang out with anyone because she didn't want people to talk about her.
The most stressful time I had with this situation was probably this past Christmas. We would always get together and exchange gifts and make some sort of cookie but this year was the very first year since pre-school that we didn’t even speak to each other. This was very hard on me because a few weeks after Christmas I got news that they were sending her to Minnesota for therapy; yet, I did not find out by her I found out through the “grape vine”. After finding out, I gather many pictures and other items and took it over to her house and gave her mom the gift to give her because she wont return my phone calls. Within a few hours of her being there I got a phone call from another friend saying she was coming home because she didn't like it there.
Even months after Christmas I still get the emptiness of not having her there like the old times and sharing the great laughs we had. I hate seeing her like this and it kills me to think what she is going through. I just hope she gets better and I don’t want to think about losing my best friend since pre-school. Even though she hates me right now for trying to help her and get her help, I know in the long run I did the right thing and hopefully she will see that later down the road; so, we can become closer again.
Wednesday, April 18, 2007
I guess you could say my weekend started off lousy, when I had to get up at six a.m. on a Saturday morning to the playing of an awful song that I can not stand. As I rolled out of bed I dragged myself to my closet to pick out an appropriate work outfit for the bank. One thing I just had about enough of is working in a bank having the stress of dressing up every day you work. As I headed to the bathroom to take my shower I came around the corner to feel a dreadful pain in my foot, as I stubbed it on the door. As I was getting ready for work I had a horrible rumble in my stomach telling me to eat. Running out the door in a hurry to get to work, I grabbed a lousy strawberry pop-tart and a glass of ice tea, the breakfast for champions.
Of course when your in a hurry to get to work, you get behind a crazy old person only going ten miles under the speed limit just to make you even later than you already were. Once I walked in the doors at work, I noticed there was only one station that had not been claimed right beside the person that I can not stand. After doing all the night deposit bags, I was already annoyed by the girl beside me. If it was not bad enough that I had to sit by her but she talks non-stop and really does not have much to say.
At the bank on a Saturday morning there is always a stampede to get in the doors first, of course everyone wants their money right away. Since the rush only last about a half hour I decided it would be a good idea if I studied a little bit for one of my midterms. As soon as I opened my book and began reading it seems like a stream of people rolled right in again. To make my day even worse, I got an angry customer that wanted to cash a rather large check that did not have the funds to cover it; therefore, he got mad and started yelling at me. I was shaking with hatred and my boss sent me on a break to cool down. Once I calmed down, I came back and began to work again, which I think was a mistake. Since that day was hell for me, there had to be another upset customer just awaiting me. My very next customer wanted to cash a check that was signed over to her but she didn’t have enough money to cover it. Before everything was over, she was crying because I would not cash her check.
A miracle came when the clock struck three. It was now time to run to a fund raiser that I was helping my dad and uncle with. When I walked in the door I abruptly heard the sound of corn hole bags hitting the boards. The fund raiser wasn’t what we all expected it to be and didn’t raise as much money as we hoped. I hurried home to study a few hours but I was exhausted. I feel asleep drooling in my text book. I set my alarm clock for the next morning’s adventures at the bank and prayed for a better day.
When I woke up it seemed like a better day, but then again it wasn’t. There was awful news in work. Not only was everyone stressed about mid-terms coming up but one of the ladies I work with fell very ill. The customers on Sunday had better attitudes and seemed friendlier. After work I had to head to a family birthday party for my four cousins. I could have been studying but I had not seen all them for awhile; thus, I decided to go. Once I returned hope I rushed right back to my bed room to begin the studying of my three midterms. I studied until it was too late and I decided I was better off going to sleep in my bed rather than on my desk.
A weekend from hell is a weekend with numerous stressful activities going on, that keeps me from my studying. The bitterness of customers can make your day go even more stressful if you can’t make them automatically happy. On a weekend from hell you can not let things bug you and just keep on going hoping for the best outcome.
Thursday, April 12, 2007
I can see that not spending a lot of time with my boyfriend is affecting our relationship. Although, he completely understands about all of my different activities that are going on he is always putting out that extra effort to see me, even if it is only for a couple hours. A major down fall for not seeing him or having enough time with him is the great laughs that we share together.
My friends are a very important aspect in my life, without them I would go crazy. They are the people I go to when I have a problem or if I just need to vent off all my steam that I build up. It is hard to find time with all of my friends because some of them don’t get along with others. Therefore, when I want to hang out with them I have to manage my time between all of them.
The time I spend with my boyfriend or friends help me relax and not care about my other activities. We all share common stresses and we all help each other out when the stress builds up to much.
Thursday, April 5, 2007
In the next couple weeks, I will find out if I got into my major or not. I am extremely nervous because I am a person that always has doubts about things when dealing with such a big decision in my life. I just hope my experiences and grades will show the ability I have to be a good student in my field. It is stressful knowing that if I do not get into my major, that I have wanted since I was little, that I will have to choose something I am not as aspired by.
Taking 19 credit hours this quarter is rough, on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays I feel like I am at school forever. My first class starts at 8:00 a.m. and I do not get to go home until 3:50 p.m. I just hope I can keep my sanity and not go crazy knowing I’m at school all day long. It is stressful knowing that with 19 credit hours means a lot of homework and a lot of reading that I have got to do, just to make sure I get a good grade in the class.
Friday, March 30, 2007
To deal with my stress I tend to listen to music, preferably music like AC/DC older rock songs. Sometimes when I do not want to deal with anyone I go to my room and just go to sleep. People deal with stress in numerous ways, from eating to working out.
I need to not stretch myself to thin with so many events. School is my top priority, I should cut back my job hours and limit my time coaching and focus all my extra time to school. I need to work on things ahead of the time and not wait until the last minute when I do not really have the time to spend my complete concentration on my school work.
Do you have a lot of stress in your life? What do you do to release stress? These are many questions that people ask to help keep their stress levels down.